Finalized decisions... kind of

Just so everyone is aware... this will probably start to be updated only about once a week, as we are entering the treatment phase. Bob and Kathie are finally escaping Houston and returning to Lafayette... which as Eddie mentioned, will remain home until they feel comfortable enough with treatment to make a shift to NC. The house in Lafayette is being taken off the market for now as well.

Last night was a mini family conference - as Lynette and Christen couldn't join. Bob has received contact with the oncologist at Wake Forest and he was extremely helpful. They are glad to have an extra sounding board, since Dr. Eng does not exactly have the warmest bedside manner (but definitely knows her stuff).

Kathie had her staples taken out yesterday (well, she's part bionic woman - as the ones inside will remain forever... they are Titanium, cool, huh?). She stunned both the person who took her staples out, and the system itself when she asked for topical anesthetic - they've never done it before - but Kathie changed all of that. Eddie's comment yesterday, "Wait, the woman who delivered 4 children naturally wouldn't even try having one staple taken out without anesthetic?" They did not exactly make a concerted effort to make everything look pretty - we'll see how the fat redistributes. I don't think Kathie is too depressed about not putting on her two piece;)

Friends and family have been ridiculously wonderful while Bob and Kathie (and Lynette, Eddie, Lauren and Lynette's daughters) have been in Houston. A big thank-you again to Eileen (Eddie's friend) and also to Irene and John Yoars, who have put Bob and Kathie up for the last week. Irene has also helped with appointment trips and has prepared gourmet meals everyday for her guests. She has also been a great shopping partner for Kathie (which we all like - because it means Kathie is walking around!).

Bob knew John through a Forum Group (Engineering leaders group) that they both belong to. The group as a whole has also been really supportive and helpful throughout this process. It is amazing how wonderful the people surrounding us are... we feel so very blest to know each and every one of you!!!

On a lighter note, the immediate family is trying to plan a little trip for maybe as early as this fall. I think we could all use a breather.

Kathie will start treatment shortly. One of her sisters will be helping in Lafayette next week and then Bob and Kathie are going to enjoy a little alone time/asking nearby neighbors for assistance, if needed. Lauren will head back to Lafayette for the week of the 9th to help out during Kathie's first chemo treatment.

Kathie thoroughly has appreciated all of the phone calls, but if you decide to call, please keep it brief. She is still very fatigued and she is getting worn out quickly and ends up using most of her energy chatting instead of doing some very necessary walking exercises.

The next update probably will not be until next week.

Posted by Lauren