Friday, June 15, 2007

A tired day

It was a busy, but unproductive day today. The more we talked about all the information we have, the more questions we realized we still had. We are pretty sure we know the main treatment - Folfiri with Avastin. But, we are looking at some more options as well, including that same treatment plus hepatic infusion. But, MD Anderson does not do that treatment, so we need to find someone to ask about it. (We have only been reading about many alternatives such as this. The standard treatment today seems to be Folfox or Folfiri plus Avastin). Our understanding is that Sloan Kettering in NY is the place that is doing this hepatic treatment currently. Anyone know an oncologist at Sloan Kettering?

Also, we are getting some conflicting information on where to put the chemo port. Some oncologists are saying "sub clavical", and some are saying "jugular". We are looking at some studies currently that might compare different placements.

Kathie and Bob are still struggling with the decision about where to be for treatment. Dr. Eng at MD Anderson will only be a "consultant", and the main oncologist will be the one at their treatment location. So, the big question is, "where to go?" Lafayette seems like a good choice because Kathie has so many friends close by. IU (and most university medical centers) are a little further away, but have more medical technology (i.e. finer resolution ct scans). Plus, there is still a house being built in NC. They are going to need to decide if they will end up there in the short or long term. If they eventually end up there, maybe the treatment should start in Winston Salem at Wake Forrest Medical Center since that is where they would go if they move to their NC house. It is a very difficult decision for them. Please pray for them during this process.

The key is that they need to decide soon b/c chemo should start about 4 weeks after surgery. A week has already gone by. Next week is still a recovery week in Houston. That leaves 2 weeks to find an oncologist, have a chemo "port" put in, and have a surgery for the basal cancer that was found near her nose. A pretty busy schedule for anyone...

Today was a mixed bag for Kathie. She was extremely tired at the beginning of the day, and through almost dinner time. At that point, however, she woke up and was hungry again. Her energy definitely returned. She went for a walk outside, and by the end of the night, she and Cathy handily beat Eddie and Eileen in a game of Euchre. The other point of celebration for her today was her second bowel movement. High fives all around!

Tomorrow, Brian and Liz Hanley are coming to visit. They live in Austin, so it is a pretty quick (i.e. 3 hour) drive. We are looking forward to seeing them.

2 comments:

Lauren said...

Mom,
You know we'll all support you wherever you decide to be... remember that your support system travels:) Eddie, you continue to do a good job updating the blog - thanks:)

Anonymous said...

I meant to write the first time Eddie took over the blog, if only to say "Great Job"...after all the praise Lauren has gotten, you are bound to feel like chopped liver (absolutely NO pun intended) and then I ran out of time. So before I leave a message for Kathie...GREAT JOB EDDIE!! All of us who love you are so appreciative of being able to access information daily. We also like knowing what is going on in order to say specific prayers...it makes us feel as if we are somehow helping even though we are so far away.
Kathie dearest: you look awesome! It is wonderful to see pictures of you...I especially love the one of you with the twins...so precious. I know you still have many choices to make and if it sounds overwhelming to us, it must be doubly so to you. Please know we will pray for all of you to make the choices that work best for you...somehow God will lead you where you are supposed to be. I am so impressed by your loving children and how they have put helping you at the center of their lives right now. You are blessed to have them. And of course, we all know how very much Bob loves you and that this is perhaps harder on him than anyone...so special love and prayers to Bob.
We love and miss you so much...

Love, Lainey